During our first encounter, Thulasi Aiya Vandayar (whose family founded the Poondi Pushpam college) asked me about my most memorable college experience. I told him I had always slept in the first morning period throughout my four years in Poondi College. In the mornings, before going to college, I had to work in the agricultural fields and cut and collect grass for the cattle. After this, I had to walk to the college four kilometers against the sun towards the east, along the river from the village to the college campus. It was not a leisurely walk. I had to run most of the times since there was very little time between the end of the work and the first class in the college. As soon as I sat and settled in the class room, the cool air from the ceiling fan would make me fall asleep. I had developed a special sleeping technique pretending as though I was deeply absorbed in the lectures. My sympathetic friends understood my problem and were kind enough to share their notes after the class. They applauded me for my audacity to sleep even in the physics class of Prof MS Govindaswamy, who was the principal of the college at that time. My friends were obviously nervous when the Principal himself came to give lectures. Sure, I was also nervous but that was not enough to stop my tired eyes from closing.
I could not sleep during the class of a soft-spoken and timid Tamil lecturer. The backbenchers would create ruckus and constant disturbance through pranks and noise during the class. So I had no option but to listen to the Tamil lectures. My classmates teased me saying that I was the only one who took these Tamil classes so seriously. This endeared me to the lecturer who used to call me to meet him after the lectures to inspire me with poems and literary reflections. He instilled in me a passion for Tamil literature so much so that I had occasional dreams of becoming a Tamil poet.
There was another class in which I had to stay awake. It was during the class of a Chemistry lecturer. When I got first mark in one of the exams, he became curious and asked me about my background. He noted my inferiority complex and insecurity in front of the Thanjavur students who were well dressed and spoke fluent English. He started calling me as “ Mr First Mark” loudly in every class after that. Obviously, I never slept in his class thereafter. He also took personal interest and pushed me to go in for post graduation and guided me to get admission.
Thulasi Aiya Vanadayar ( called affectionately and respectfully as Aiya) could not contain his laugh at my sleep stories and started singing the the famous film song.. தூங்காதே தம்பி தூங்காதே ( do not sleep, brother, do not sleep)... He complimented me for becoming an exception to the line "உயர்பள்ளியில் தூங்கியவன் கல்வி இழந்தான்” (one who slept in the school lost his education). In all our subsequent meetings, he would always tease me with that song.
I compensated for the loss of learning in the first period with extra work during my return walk home from the college. I would walk very very slowly and review the lecture notes thoroughly. I would stop at many places and sometimes sit down under the trees along the riverside with my eyes devouring the notes and books. By the time I reached home I had alreay mastered what was taught in the classes each day. I needed to do this because of another challenge. I had studied in Tamil medium in the school. So I had to cope with the English medium in the college. I had to work doubly hard to understand English before understanding the subject.
My first encounter with Aiya was in the sports day celebrations ceremony at the village school in Raramuthiraikottai in 1994. I had come on home leave from my posting in New York. The school had invited me to the prize distribution ceremony in which Aiya was the chief guest. The head master introduced me to Aiya as the village lad who made it to New York as an officer of the Indian Foreign Service. Aiya was impressed and asked where did I do my college studies. I told him it was in his own Poondi college. He was excited and started asking more details of my journey from Raramuthiraikottai to New York. I told him the journey to diplomacy started with the 4 km walk to the college from my village.
When I finished SSLC in Mariammankovil high school, my illiterate uncle (who had adopted me since he had no kids) told me that eleven years of schooling was more than enough. He wanted me to stop further education and start working the land and looking after the cattle. He said he could not afford to pay for college education, in any case. I told him that Poondi College was just walking distance from the village, the same distance as the Mariammankovil school. I assured him that I would work during weekends and before and after the college hours in the morning and evening. As for funds, I told him I would get scholarship (to which I was entitled with my high SSLC marks) which would be more than enough to pay the tuition fees. He accepted the deal and let me go to the Poondi college.
When I finished SSLC in Mariammankovil high school, my illiterate uncle (who had adopted me since he had no kids) told me that eleven years of schooling was more than enough. He wanted me to stop further education and start working the land and looking after the cattle. He said he could not afford to pay for college education, in any case. I told him that Poondi College was just walking distance from the village, the same distance as the Mariammankovil school. I assured him that I would work during weekends and before and after the college hours in the morning and evening. As for funds, I told him I would get scholarship (to which I was entitled with my high SSLC marks) which would be more than enough to pay the tuition fees. He accepted the deal and let me go to the Poondi college.
After the first meeting, I had met Aiya several times during my home leave from foreign postings. I visited him in his houses in Poondi and Chennai as well as in his parliamentary residence in New Delhi. He wanted me to share my story with the Poondi college students. He was in the front row of the audience during my two lectures in the college.
Aiya took interest in India’s foreign policy and global affairs. He had acute intellectual hunger and thirst for knowledge . He was surprised when I told him that Pakistan was one of my most exciting and enjoyable postings professionally and personally. I had to get over my inherited Indian prejudice about Pakistan and make friends with Pakistanis and deal with their country to advance the diplomatic interests of India. Later, he was more suprised when I told him about my Latin America specialization. He admitted that he himself did not know the region well. He asked me how I got interested in the distant and lesser known Latin America. I told him that it was inspired by my literary journey from Malgudi to Macondo. In the novels of R K Narayan, Malgudi is the fictional small town inhabited by typical traditional Indian folk known for simplicity, austerity and spiritualism. On the other hand, Macondo, the fictional town in the novels of the Colombian writer Gabriel Garcia Marquez, is filled with Magical Realism. I fell in love with this genre of Latin American Literature. After the novels, I started to read and understand Latin American politics, history and economies. But the region was mired in military dictatorships and economic crises in the last century. This was the reason for India not taking the region seriously. But Latin America had undergone a paradigmatic transformation in the twenty first century with democratic stability and economic prosperity. This had opened business opportunities and political partnership for India. Among the Indian diplomats, I had taken the initiative and lead to promote relations with Latin America with lectures, books, articles and through social media. I continue to do this even after my retirement in 2012.
Aiya believed in simple living and high thinking. He was a Gandhian in his personal life, eschewing luxury and embracing simplicity, although he had so much wealth. He was an avid reader. We used to exchange reviews of the books we had read. While he wrote books and pamphlets on education, social issues, personality development and spiritual upliftment, my writings were focussed on Latin America. He was a powerful speaker in conversations and in front of the mike. His articulation of ideas flowed from his creative mind and kind heart. During our meetings, I had seen him offering help, advice and financial assistance to underprivileged students and others generously and readily. He wanted to maintain the college fees low and affordable to the students from the poor rural families.
I guess Aiya was the one who dedicated the most time and energy to continuous improvement and expansion of the college. He used to tell me about his commitment and vision to making Poondi college as a premier institution. During the time of his management, he ensured the introduction of new courses, opening of the college to women and building of impressive infrastructure and facilities. Thousands of boys and girls from the rural areas of Thanjavur have benefitted from Aiya’s work and vision. The village boys and girls going to Poondi college these days are luckier than me. Since the college provides transport, they do not have to walk, get tired and fall asleep in the first period.